Felina's Blog

  I met my best friend at my age of 11 , he was once the best friend in my life.   But we broke off after one incident happened that made me really  uncomfortable.  The incident happened when I was a fifth grade student. There was a shelf in our classroom and it was so high that we couldn’t touch  it.  Our teacher put many things on it, including a pink flower vase which her mother had given long time ago.  She always cautioned us not to approach to the shelf.  One day, my friend and I were waiting for the teacher.  As a result of boring, we decided to look for something fresh. We saw a toy car  that put on the top of the shelf.  I wanted to take it but it was too high, so I grabbed the edge of the shelf.  When my right hand took the pole of the shelf, my left hand collided with the vase at the same time and it broken into pieces.  I didn’t have enough time to get nervous as soon as my teacher came in the classroom.  She found that the pieces of vase spread out the ground, and raged at all the students.  She asked us who did this and said that she would punish the one who broke the vase.  At that moment, I felt my heart beating and my friend told to the teacher that all I did  unexpectedly.  I couldn’t believe he would betray me, but I didn’t blame on him.  Instead, I thought that my teacher was my teacher’s fault in the incident.  She shouldn’t put the vase at the dangerous place, and shouldn’t even more put the car to tempt us…I thought that I was innocent. After this incident I also estranged with my friend because I don’t want a friend that will tip off and forsake me.

Friendship is a castle. 

  Many people worry about how to make friends, especially when they are in a new environment. It is hard to adapt that you don’t know how to do. But if you want to let yourself get good relationship with others, you must do interaction. First of all, you can have a big smile on face while greeting with your classmates. “Smile” is the most useful tool for communicating, and it will help others get a good intension on you. Secondly, you can give your hands to someone who needs help. As a saying goes” A friend in need is a friend indeed. ”, everyone will cherish the one who ever helped him. If you help others when both of you are unfamiliar friends, you would soon get the trust. Eventually, join more clubs and activities. The more you interact with others, the more opportunities you can know deeply to others. For example, you may ask to do a project or plan together so that it will be a chance to make friend with your partner. To make friends can broaden your horizons and get many life experiences, it is very important and valuable.

  Living in the modern society, we are usually haunted by many things. If the pressure overstocks for a long time, it may be triggered at any moment. On account of the consequence of the pressure, how to relax is an important thing that we should know. Learning how to relax is a key to good life balance and self respect. Although some stress is good for us, we still need to release our emotion moderately. After working or studying, we can make the time to ease up our body. First of all, find a quiet place where we won’t be disturbed. The silence can make us more thoughtful and peaceful. When we are in a quiet place, the time seems to be resting. Secondly, slow our breathing and actively concentrate on it. This motion can help us relax our muscles and nerves. Third, take a warm shower. It can wash away the whole day unpleasantness. Finally, go to bed but take any annoying thing with you to sleep. We also need to think positively and keep smile and laugh. The most important of all-be confident and don’t give up! Follow this tips, there will no difficulties can beat us.

Homesickness is like a cup of coffee. Coffee has several different tastes at the same time just like we have many kinds of feelings when we are homesick. The first time we left home, being separated with our family, to go to another country to study or work, we felt awful and helpless in the beginning. The feelings are like the bitter of coffee. After taking some sips, it may taste a little bit sour. The taste of sour symbolizes our loneliness in our deep heart. Finally, we can feel the taste of sweet in our mouth. Though homesickness makes us feel upset, helpless and lonely, it also makes us know the importance of cherishing the love between each family member. From bitter, sour to sweet, the process represents our emotional change which is due to homesickness.

Everyone make mistakes through their lives. 

Slowly.

Dreaming that I fly in the sky

Dreaming that  I dance under the sea